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When Adults Feel Overwhelmed

  • Writer: Christopher Butson
    Christopher Butson
  • 7 hours ago
  • 2 min read
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🌧️When Adults Feel Overwhelmed

Hi, I’m Scruffy. Christopher reminded me that grown-ups carry heavy things — worries, grief, pressure, and sometimes pain that feels too big to name. At first, I thought adults had to be strong all the time. But Christopher taught me: asking for help is strength.


🌧️ When Life Feels Too Heavy

You might feel:

  • Numb, hopeless, or constantly anxious

  • Like you’re failing, or letting people down

  • Like you want to disappear, or stop hurting

  • Like no one would understand

These feelings are real. You are not broken. You are not alone.



🛡️ Scruffy’s Safety Rituals for Adults

  • Speak to someone you trust: A friend, GP, therapist, or helpline

  • Call Samaritans: 116 123 — free, confidential, open 24/7

  • Text SHOUT to 85258: For quiet, anonymous support

  • Call HOPELINE247 (Papyrus): 0800 068 4141 — for anyone under 35 or worried about someone

  • Write it down: Use your notebook and pen to name the feelings — it’s a ritual of truth

  • Stay close to comfort: A warm drink, a blanket, a quiet corner — these are sanctuary tools


Scruffy’s Reflection

At first, I thought grown‑ups had to carry everything alone, with no vault to lean on. But Christopher reminded me: sanctuary is for everyone.

For adults, that means every heavy moment becomes a chance to:

  • Reach out — to a friend, a helpline, or a trusted voice

  • Tell someone — sharing is strength, not weakness

  • Remember — you are never alone, ever


📞 Helplines for Adults

  • Samaritans: 116 123 — free, confidential, open 24/7

  • SHOUT: Text SHOUT to 85258 — free, confidential, open 24/7

  • HOPELINE247 (Papyrus): 0800 068 4141 or text 07860 039967 — for anyone under 35 or worried about someone



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